Answer by Anonymous:
I thrashed my wife to get my life back to normal
I went through this 3 years ago in Delhi, though I now live in Germany with my German wife.
My wife was having affairs with multiple men at her work place. I had evidence of the same, where there were nasty (really sick) messages from men, asking her to stay over at their places.
We'd been married for 6 months at the time and I immediately asked for a divorce the next day, telling her why I wanted it.
My asking for a divorce hurt her ego badly. Very badly.
Same scenario as the other, she complained to the cops and I had 9 cases on my head. The moment my company found out, I lost my job and I wasn't getting jobs elsewhere because of the FIR mark against my name.
I went through this phase for 12 months, 12 months of being rejected my MNC's because background checks, proved that I had a "number" of police cases on my head. Despite having brilliant recommendations from my seniors and college profs whom I was in touch with
Now, what does a man do in this case? I have loans to repay and I was a senior in a large corporation, so I was drawing a good amount of money. All of a sudden, I couldn't pay for my car, house and money invested in mutual funds.
What the fuck was I supposed to do? It came to a point, where I was finding it cumbersome to survive in Delhi. That's when I completely lost my mind. I took to alcohol and being an alcoholic for a few months. Family and friends avoided me because of my rowdy behavior.
So, I called my (bitch) ex wife one fine day and told her politely to back off. She refused saying that I deserved this. That's when I decided to get back at her. I did and my life was back to normal.
I stalked her and found out where she went and what she did with her time. I caught a hold of her at 7 p.m. at a certain location in Delhi, where I literally attacked her. I thrashed her like there was no tomorrow. Yes, I beat her up badly, slapped her around and pushed her to the ground. I threatened her and told her that I'd kill her if she didn't leave me alone. I even carried a Swiss Army knife at the time, just to scare the fuck out of her and it worked very well.
That's when the bitch got the message and pleaded for mercy & withdrew her case against me.
I don't give a flying fuck what you feminists think of this. When a man's high flying career has gone to seed and is left with nothing, you get desperate. That survival instinct kicks in and you'd do anything to get back on track.
We're living in tough times — life is stressful and the last thing I needed was some retard of a woman destroying my life, without any fault of mine.
I asked her to back off politely but she refused and this is how I deal with situations that go completely our of hand.
P.S. – I'd slap her again if I ever see her. Hard. For destroying 1 precious year of my life and creating a bad impression of me in multiple MNC's, that won't even consider me now if I ever come back to India because I "had" a FIR filed against my name.