It can be drawn parallel to the things which you are ready to surrender. For that you need to immolate your desires and comforts. No, you don’t need to possess something to sacrifice; but yes, you will be having a hard time to adhere to the changes in those things which in your daily life is just a routine. If you are willing to achieve something you have never achieved before, then you have to work the way you have never worked before.
What are the major problems? Most of us say “Man Nahi Krta”, “Par nhi Paata”, “Mushkil hai”… Well those people carry on their shoulders a strong reason, which they don’t even know. And then comes the Mighty into picture – Our Subconscious mind! We can never get a total hold onto our subconscious mind, what it thinks and how does it affects our thinking and determination. Things we did, things we are doing and things we plan to do affects our subconscious mind. Our subconscious mind is not able to distinguish between what is good for our target and what is not. We made beliefs that we are not good depending upon many minor and major incidents of our past and those beliefs feed on our brains. This is the core reason. Whatever we recite to ourselves consumes our mind. Our subconscious mind is like a Mighty Warrior and our Conscious mind like a King. Whatever king orders, knowingly or unknowingly, the Mighty warrior makes it so. Mighty warrior doesn’t has mind of its own. It only executes orders. So if you say you are tenuous then mighty warrior enervate you and ensures that you remain weak. To achieve something you have never achieved before, you need to think like you have never thought before. And when our minds are clear of obstacles, Motivation evolves.
So what do we have to do? Stand on a single feet? Doing Shirshasan? No not really… We have to do much simpler things. Simple but not easy! Our motive is to clear subconscious mind of all the confusions which we are not aware of consciously.
You care much about if anybody called you, you care about Facebook, you care about Parties, you live for others… You make yourself dependent upon outer confirmations. Somebody didn’t call you for a week you get sad, no SMS you get sad, no FB notification or any message reply you get sad, In Whatsapp/BBM someone left without replying your message you get sad. And ultimately you are giving indication to your subconscious mind that you are worthless. It’s time to get a break. What? Yes! Steps need to be taken. Get cut off from Facebook, deactivate or delete your account; not getting updates of breakups and makeups would not make a big deal, but on a positive note, you would be getting rid of all those hopeless people’s pessimistic status updates. Oh I have to attend that Birthday day party, or he/she may not talk to me. Really? The one who just can’t understand that you have exams coming so you cannot come doesn’t deserve to be your bud anyway. So if someone calls you asking “Hey want to come up for a party over here.” You can clearly say “No” and tell them not to goad you to come. Last time I remember, someone called me and I said “Bro, I will be free later, you can call me after March 2014!” No Facebook, No calls, No messages, No emails, No Whatsapp, No Parties… Don’t make any promises. Your temporary desires of getting short-lived fame, playing video games, watching TV, surfing internet would bring no good.
And when you know what you want and how bad you want it, success will come and you will pat yourself on the back for the decisions you took in the past. Our mind is our Ultimate power having immeasurable potential. It entirely depends upon us how frequently we feed Ambrosia to our mind.